Parents - Kids Problem

 Always parent took for that the children are not doing good or well behaving. But the parents should also look around for the children. They just say that the kids are not saying good and then get frustrated. The children also should be going through tough times. Therefore the solution to this is that all the parties should hear each other out efficiently and carefully. This way the problem can be get solved. Always the boys should be having some issues. It's not like a parent does not have any problems, they do have. They would have gone through tough times during their time. Now they need to understand the past and react or act accordingly. Whereas if they will take out the past and likewise will behave in the present will affect the relationship badly. Then the parents would be like we will not be talking or behaving with you properly and we will live separately. The kids are also not bad. They are also trying to understand you. They also must be going through some problem in their life which they could not discuss with someone quickly. Then the kids find someone in their life who will say that the parents are behaving irrationally then the problem outgrows only going forward. Thus the easy or smooth solution to these would be sitting and talking in the family. Then only this problem can get solved otherwise it will be just growing.

Mom just came to my room and said that she has been hurt that I told her that while playing garba she is playing very nicely but when it comes sometimes she is not feeling well. My intention was to say that she has got the stamina very powerful but many she displays it as weak. Many times she is working very hard and later she gets tired so it is normal then we should take some rest and we will be good. But she is more working hard and when she gets sicken then only she will be taking proper rest. I agree that my tone must not be right but my intentions are not. I can be wrong but not always that should be understood. Its not like I do not understand her, I do that she may be frustrated by some thing else and getting it out on me. But the road should be two ways to be understood. Hopefully this will not create any problem in future.