Why is it always like parents being very caring and more than that they try to force everything causing no freewill to the child. They are right ok but at what cost everytime they has to say something on due to their belief or past thinking. Now the queue is in child hand where they are also trying to be responsible for all the work or expectation parents pass on. They will not respect the beliefs or thinking of new generation because they are always right. They will make things count which is correct whereas if the child would say anything about it that what they are doing and parents are doing it differently they will say do not compare. It is the hypocrisy. You cannot be always right. Yes it is fine that what you are thinking is correct but atleast try to understand the child perspective or thinking and try to mold in it. For proving themselves right they will try to bring every activity of yours to their point. Yes ok we understand what you are saying is correct but atleast think of other person. I don't know what exactly should be correct. Yes we are the new generation and think it through different way. You have an opinion but you do not say because they will not respect you or understand you but will try to force on you with their thinking which can get frustrating many times but lets see how it goes. They say that they do not care about it or will not involve in the thinking or decision but they force many things and then say you are an adult you should take your own decision but how can one take when you already have taken one.
It's like many things are going on here. I do not know how to deal with it. The family is playing an important role in it. How to make it happen? I am not able to understand that what is the exact problem? Is it the freedom? Is it like the family does not allow you to do work on your own. In my brother's case, it is like opposite he loves being at home unlike me whereas I like staying in the hostel doing everything on my own. Here it feels congested. I do not know what is the path to work through it. How can I change my perspective? I have visited home for a week and it is getting very difficult to spend time here whereas in the hostel it is comparatively easier for the time going. Also, there is a situation with me where there is a person in the hostel with whom I am interacting more but unable to understand if I can progress more on it or not because there is an age gap of 7 years. Let's see where this goes and how it goes. I am totally blank on what to do in the situati...
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